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Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Jada & Will Smith - Did she really validate him??



Jada and Will Smith at Victoria Beckham's birthday party. Will rocked a country club look while Jada opted for a rock 'n' roll vibe (and check out her edgy new hairdo). Straight from Jada's mouth, "I validated Will"..WOW, powerful statement. Is that cocky or confident?
Ladies, what's your thoughts on (1) their outfits (2) do you feel that it takes a WOMAN to validate a MAN or better yet can a WOMAN validate a MAN (3) should a WOMAN want a MAN that needs to be validated? hmmmm.....very interested in your thoughts on this topic.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Jada girl, don’t fool yaself. U might have Will thinking ya validated him. U a lil mo cocky den him, but he sure ain’t need yo ass to validate him. Ya couldn't validate yourself.

IMO, quite the contrary. Will pulled your a*s up offa da D-list with the quickness. Now you tryna get right back on w/that gutta band you got. Don’t get me wrong, U had yer thing going, but you didn’t get no strong mainstream appeal till Will claimed ya, sh*t.

Might not show, but, I like U Jada, you got mad style, I like ya sh*t, and girl u banging, but tell da d*mn truth. But U probably really believe that yaself; likes dat confidence.

Now that I’m through talking to Jada:
1. I like their outfits
2. For the men who need validation, a woman can do that, but watch out….
3. Sometimes, you shouldn’t validate a man because it’ll go to his head and, he'll get too d*mn cocky and the next thing you know… (you know the end of that story; sometimes it's better to leave um like you found um, trust!)
4. Now whether a woman should want a man that needs validation, that’s a tricky question, most times I think NOT. But when a man has got enough going for him and can appreciate that he’s been upgraded, it’s okay.

PS: Now my definition of validation of a person is to show them their worthiness or sorta make them legitimate, so to speak.

Sorry for the long post, but u know .......... Mad luv for ya!

Anonymous said...

(1) their outfits are smoking, they dress like everyday people and that's what I like about them, they are REAL.

(2) come on ladies, we all know that know one wants their stanking asses until we get with them, so yes, we do validate them.

3) should a WOMAN want a MAN that needs to be validated is a tricky one because I believe every man needs some validation. Even Jay Z with all the money he has, it still took B to put him on the map.

miss thang don't mind upgrading!

Anonymous said...

All I can say is.....Jada looks a mess with that hairstyle. Will should have told her how stupid she looks. I don't think she validated him, he was cool to begin with. Like passion said, she was and still is a D list actress. Will is the one who made people recognize her. Shut up Jada and go sit down somewhere.

Anonymous said...

I agree with Kellieb and Passion; Jada needs to get real, she will say anything to keep herself relevant. She turned me off a long time ago, jocking 2-Pac.

A woman don't need a man she has to validate, get one whom will upgrade you to the max. Make him put up or shut up. (That's what Jada's a*s did!)

Anonymous said...

Jada's hair is a greasy mess. That outfit is just ok. I think that she is a little mixed up about the validation. A blind man can see that she was validated by Will.. nuf said.

Anyway, they both on the down low. Is that what she means? Can't be cause he was married before her, so ...... it still stands.....he validated her.

Anonymous said...

Jada is my girl and she is mad sassy but I agree (even though I don't like Will) He has made Ms. Pickett... Mrs. Smith!

Anonymous said...

r yall all CRAZY, Will Smith was the biggest NERD until he got with Jada. Yall trippin big time.

Anonymous said...

Jada cannot make a movie worth watching...and her latest venture "Hawthorne" will not last. She really needs to stop throwing away Will's money, concentrate on being a good mother and wife and stop thinking that going to a Hollywood party trying to imitate the look of the host is happening. There would be no Jada without Will, he validates her, without him she probably would not have been invited to the party she was attending. It is amazing how a non educated female from Baltimore got so damn lucky,,,because truly that is how she got where she is. Pure luck, because I am more inclined to think her talents are best used to rear her children and standby Will. I cannot stand to hear her talk because her conversation is not intelligent, not thought provoking.